Most of us have experienced moments, maybe even life times of attempting to control the future. This might happen when we want something so badly, we view it as the only acceptable outcome. The irony of this is, when we only allow one option, we close the door to possible better options. Often times fear creeps in and our brain will begin to tell us why we may or may not, achieve our perceived only option. At this point the focus becomes on why it might not happen, versus why it will happen.
Is it possible to just relax and really let the future unfold? Yes; but there are several important pieces to consider when allowing your life to open up magically. If you have specific goals; ask yourself why this and not something different? Make sure they are your dreams, not someone else’s. The next piece to consider is, how will you feel when you achieve your goal?
Feelings are the most important piece in creating our future and enjoying the now. Imagine and connect to the feelings you love. Make them a part of your everyday life. Let each breath hold a connection to your favorite feelings and dreams. Each time you experience a feeling it can build and continue to grow until it fully becomes who you are.