Are you a liar?
I believe most of us are. (Hey, we are all human, no judgement here.)
And the biggest lies we tell are to ourselves.
We lie to ourselves in small ways and big.
For instance, perhaps you do some or all of these:
You want to be healthy and yet you consistently blow off exercising and eat things you know are not good for you.
You want to nourish your mind with loving thoughts and yet you make up stories about how you are not good enough, loveable enough, or whatever and you let those stories keep you stuck.
You are in a relationship with a narcissist or someone who clearly exhibits bad behavior and you stick around hoping they will change. (They won’t)