It's easy to forget that we are all perfect in our own design. Sometimes we muck it up with habits and choices that do not serve us.
Twenty-three years ago, on June 22, I married my soulmate, Brian, in a beautiful, magical Hindu ceremony officiated by the hugging saint, Amma.
What I didn’t know on that auspicious day could fill a book!
Leading up to the wedding, I had never given any thought as to what kind of wife and partner I would be to him.
Having written and manifested my extensive “soulmate wish list,” I had high expectations of what was in it for me, but never really thought about what was in it for him.
Early on in our marriage I made a horrifying discovery about myself: I had no partnership skills!
Having run a business for many years, I knew how to be the “boss” but was clueless about how to be a great partner.
Fortunately, Brian spent a good part of his life playing team sports and working in collaborative business partnerships. He modeled how to “play well with others.”
Over the years I’ve learned from him and became better at surfing the relationship waves.
I also became a “student of love” and did more than 200 hours of interviews with the world’s top love, marriage, and relationship experts to discover what it takes to be a good partner. (I put all my favorite tips and techniques into my book Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate)
A few of the most important things I’ve discovered are these:
Brian is my hero. I call him my heart chakra on legs. He radiates love and kindness and when I grow up, I want to be more like him, and I am excited, grateful, and looking forward to the next 23 years!
Wishing you love, laughter, and magical kisses,
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